Last year, I marked October 15 for the first time. It was the first time I could be counted amongst the one in four women who lose a child to miscarriage, stillbirth, or early infant death (the CDC defines "early infant death" as the death of a child prior to one year of age). Like the others who are counted in that one in four, it has been and continues to be important to me that the life of the child I lost is not trivialized. It is important to me that my son's life is acknowledged.

On October 15 of last year, my grief was so fresh. We had buried my son less than a week prior. Something like this would not have been possible. Now there's something I'd like to do to acknowledge not just my loss, but if you are included in that one in four, your loss as well. If I'm going to do that, I need your help to make it happen.
Please take a look at the below video and consider whether or not you'd like to participate.
For a written summary of the video (or to review in writing the details included in the video), see the Say Their Names link at the top of the page.
For those of you wishing to participate, please make your submissions no later than Friday, October 14 by 3 p.m. (EST).
If you wish to include a Say Their Names badge on your own blog as a way of inviting others to participate, there is a badge available at the top of the sidebar on the left. The badge will link to the Say Their Names page at the top of the blog, which also contains a link to this post. Badge size is 220 x 147 pixels.
Or you can grab it here:

Natasha Anastasia Forgie (Four-gee)
ReplyDeleteBenjamin Friel, Brooke Friel, Ryan Friel(prounounce Freel).
ReplyDeleteEmma Frances and Sophia Marie Mackey (Mack-key)
ReplyDeleteSawyer Erik Williams http://sawyersheart.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteNoah Paul Weinshrott (wine-shrott)
ReplyDeleteEthan Richard Reid
ReplyDeleteAlexis Jade and the other 18 Holliday babies.
ReplyDelete(I don't know how else to include them- I had 17 m/c's including 1 set of twins thank you for including them)
I miscarried my baby at 5 weeks, so of course I don't know if my first baby was a boy or girl, but I do know that in Heaven, I will meet that precious first child of mine!! I have talked openly to my 2 boys about them having a brother or sister that they will meet in Heaven!! Thank you for remembering my child.
ReplyDeleteBaby Gabriel Bonnett (m/c)
ReplyDeleteBaby Ransym Bonnett (m/c)
Seth Douglas Bonnett
(Bonnett is pronounced like a bonnet you wear on your head)
My baby brother, born still at 24 weeks. Elijah Christopher Lovelace.
ReplyDeleteHezekiah Samuel Risner
ReplyDeleteTabitha Grace Risner
Baby Thornton
ReplyDeleteBrenna McNeil
ReplyDeleteBrantley McNeil
Thank you so much for doing this! <3
my niece, baby Hope, lost at 37 weeks
ReplyDeleteSophia Lynn Dumontel (do-montel) 8-17-2008
ReplyDeletesecond cousin to Natasha Anastasia Forgie (four-gee)
Angles in heaven together.
Maggie Elizabeth or Tomas Carmelo m/c 11/2000 at 7 weeks(Tomas pronounced like Thomas).
ReplyDeleteKirsten, thank you for acknowledging miscarriage as a very real and painful loss.
Sara Elizabeth Moothart
ReplyDeleteBenjamin Joseph Moothart
Abigail Renee Moothart
Robert Emmanuel Moothart
Renee is pronounced "Ren-ay" and Moothart is pronounced "Moot-heart"
Thank you for including those of us who have miscarried our children. It is good to have our loss acknowledged alongside yours.
baby Cook('11) and
ReplyDeletebaby Schappell('07)
oops.. Schappell is pronounce (sha-pell)
ReplyDeleteLucy Wright
ReplyDeleteMary Wright
3 Snowflakes Wright
Thank you, Kirsten.
Warmly,
Jen Wright
Isabella Ann Marie Gilman
ReplyDeleteI think this is really great. Thanks!
Marylou Janice
ReplyDeletehttp://jonamie.wordpress.com/our-journey/
Amanda Gabrielle Mendez 7/29/1985
ReplyDeletePraise Best
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Sarah Beatrice....My niece...
ReplyDeletealex
ReplyDeleteKristina Faith Page
ReplyDeleteBaby Goble (known to us as Peanut and Baby G)
ReplyDeleteGoble(long o...we aren't turkeys!)
My goddaughter Carlin Hedrick (Car-Lynn Head-rick) stillborn at 22 weeks.
ReplyDeleteBenjamin James
ReplyDeleteJordan Gabe (gah-bee)
ReplyDeleteI would like to add my friends little girl who passed away at 6 weeks.
ReplyDeleteAddison Leah Sheppard
Baby Wilson who was lost due to a tubal pregnancy...my baby brother or sister.
ReplyDeleteBaby Wilson (the next generation) my niece or nephew lost to a mc.
Rosalynn Ashbrook--born still at full term
Thank you!
Hayden Neal and Garrett Lee born May 21, 2009 at 18 weeks and 4 days
ReplyDeleteQuirt Otis born May 19, 2011 at 15 weeks and 5 days
Bryston (Brice-ton) Gabriel Cortez and Colton Joseph Cortez - August 15, 2010
ReplyDeleteMy blog - http://www.trena-freetofly.blogspot.com
(I do want to say that in my blog I talk about my loss, my living children, trying to conceive and pregnancy)
♥
Abigail Phillips.
ReplyDeleteFebruary 2003. Miscarriage.
Fabulous idea! my blog is more about Annabelle, my CHDer born last year, but I've talked about Abigail numerous times as well in the past. reflectionsbykrista.blogspot.com
Baby Sommer (like the season)
ReplyDeleteMC @ 6 weeks
May 2009
www.jsommerfamily.blogspot.com
I've got two:
ReplyDeleteMy cousin, Rowan Steppe-Viergutz [like you're rowin' a boat, steppy, and veer-goots]
My mom's first child was miscarried at 1.5 months (someday, I'm going to meet him/her, and s/he and I are going to rejoice!)
Thank you so much for doing this!
Lael Kluge
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name means "belonging to God"
miscarried at 16 weeks
Thank you so much for this. It's a beautiful way to remember the little lives that mean so much to us.
Alice Marie Kluge
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ReplyDeleteBaby Kluge (pronounced Kloogee)
ReplyDeleteMiscarried 1983 - 1st trimester. After all these years - still cry over the loss of our little love! Look forward to meeting someday in Heaven.
Thanks for doing this for all of us!
Donald (Donny) Beatty Leavitt passed away at 5 weeks in 1964 with a heart defect. As his younger sister I am excited to meet him in Heaven someday.
ReplyDeleteZephaniah Dekyr Klix (pronounced Decker and Clicks)
ReplyDeletezephaniahdekyr.blogspot.com
Such a special way to remember, thank you!
Aleah Marie Dogeagle
ReplyDeletebaby Dogeagle, pronounced like it sounds " dog eagle"
http://journey2judah.blogspot.com/2011_04_01_archive.html
Elizabeth Mae
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Baby Bean
Wonderful idea - thank you!
Sonja
anotherblm.blogspot.com
baby felmley
ReplyDeleteBaby Egan (m/c)
ReplyDeleteThank you so very much for remembering this little soul
Baby Sanders m/c 6wks
ReplyDeleteGod Bless you, thank you for doing this.
Brody Michael Lukehart
ReplyDeletemy niece or nephew: baby Crenshaw
ReplyDeletemy niece or nephew: baby Crenshaw
Baby Hagen m/c at 8 wks.
ReplyDeletethank you.
Harper Berkhahn
ReplyDeletewww.blessedbythebear.blogspot.com
Baby Reenders- pronounced just like it is spelled, ee -long e sound in feet. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteMiscarried at 5 weeks, 5 days- still a part of my heart.
Teddy James Thomas
ReplyDeletem/c after only knowing for 4 days.
We love yout!
I miscarried at 6 weeks...doctor confirmed my pregnancy on a Monday, and I miscarried on Thursday. That was 9 years ago ....and not a day goes by that I don't think about how different my life would be. But I also know that God doesn't make mistakes.
ReplyDelete'Blueberry' Sardegna, born into heaven July 16, 2011
ReplyDeleteJoshua Haskins
ReplyDeleteBaby Bestgen (miscarried at 6 weeks)
ReplyDeleteFred Bestgen (miscarried at 15 weeks)
Bestgen is pronounced "best-jen".
Thank you so much, Kirsten.
Baby Greene (like the color)
ReplyDeleteMiscarried at 12 weeks
October 9, 2000
Kirsten, you have made my heart smile. Thank you for remembering my child in such a special way!
Baby Williams (x's 2)
ReplyDeleteMy mom lost 2 baby boys due to miscarriage.
Such a special thing you are doing Kirsten! Thank you!
Charlotte Delene Ritchie
ReplyDeletehttp://littlemissritchie.blogspot.com
Thank you for this chance to remember my babies.
ReplyDeleteStillborn 2/12/04 David James
Miscarried:
Amanda Maxine
Daniel Robert
Elizabeth Lynn
Jacob Allen
Sean Robert
Rebekah Kay
Katelyn Rose
Gabriel Elijah Stoltzfus
ReplyDeleteSophia Alexis Davies
ReplyDeleteKatrina Suzanna Masulla. (Pronounced Ma-zoo-la)
ReplyDeleteEmma Abigail Dronen, born premature at 26 weeks on 2/26/06
ReplyDeleteCampbell James Dronen, stillborn at 20 weeks on 3/6/07
oh, and Dronen is pronounced Dro (like glow) nen (like when)
thank you so much Kirsten :)
Thanks so much for doing this, and for including those who have had miscarriages.
ReplyDeleteWe had 3 miscarriages between 8 & 11 weeks so we didn't know the sex of the babies and didn't give them names.
I like to think of them as my 3 Krug peanut angels watching over us and I am so looking forward to meeting them and seeing all 7 of my children playing together when we get to heaven.
Thanks again, praying for you!!
Lilly Grace Johnson, 11 weeks
ReplyDeleteBrake Patton Johnson, 18 weeks
(http://rebuildingabrokenheart.blogspot.com)
One of my dearest friends has also lost two babies, but doesn't have access to this. Her babies names are Isabella Denise Rochelle and Baby Rochelle.
Miscarried at 13 1/2 weeks
ReplyDeleteHunter Johnson
Salina Faith Johnson
Thankyou!!
Baby Fiegel (rhymes with seagull)
ReplyDelete1st trimester miscarriage - earned wings on October 27, 2007
http://lovetwolittlebugs.blogspot.com/2010/07/remembering.html
Ewan Eliezer Petermann
ReplyDeletehttp://www.team-ewan.com/
Baby Rivers lost in 1st trimester.
ReplyDeleteBaby S
ReplyDeletem/c at 4w3d on 9/26/08
Thank you for doing this Kirsten. You remain in my prayers.
Parker Kennedy Nahas (stillborn at 36 weeks)
ReplyDeleteM/C at 8 weeks
Thank you!
Hannah Marie Tolman
ReplyDeleteborn into heaven 11/13/07
www.tolmanfamilyblog.blogspot.com
Mackenzie Grace Bryan
ReplyDeleteMatthew Ross Beach.
ReplyDeleteJune 27, 2011 - June 27, 2011
Hailey Faye McCrow
ReplyDelete7/18/09-12/02/09
www.hopeforhailey.blogspot.com
Rachel Campbell Smith
ReplyDeleteHarper Michaela ....lost three days ago m/c I actually didn't know I counted and I thank you for being you and having the strength to inspire me to be strong...
ReplyDeleteTaylor Layne Anderson Aug 30,2011
ReplyDeleteBrayden Martin Altemier (Alt-a-myer)
ReplyDeletewww.forevermissed.com/brayden-altemier (Brayden's website)
and
Ella Beth Altemier
Matthew Salvas (Sal-viss) - my baby sibling who was miscarried at 12 weeks. He would have been born in 2000.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for doing this, Kirsten.
Jesse Harding, my little brother or sister.
ReplyDeleteAlex Schaar (sh-are) May 2011
www.rachelleschaar.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteBriella Elisa Rocha, born at 25w6d on 3/31/11 and lived for 6 precious hours.
ReplyDeleteBaby Shaffer mc at 11 weeks on 12/30/02
ReplyDeleteLogan Shaffer 2/5/05 ~ 3/28/05 CHD
Jaron (pronounced like "erin" with a J in front) LaRue - Dec 24th, 2000
ReplyDeleteChavonne (soft Ch - like shh) LaRue - March 19, 2001
Baby twins DuChien (Doo-Shane)
ReplyDeleteBrandon Ty Garner
ReplyDeleteMy son Gideon Michael
ReplyDeleteMy Grandson Chance Odin
Kirsten...Because Ewan changed this world I can now say their names...thank you from my very soul♥
Gideon Raymond Matthew
ReplyDeleteMy blog https://tinyglimmers.wordpress.com
Loved
Missed
Remembered
♥
Aaron Matthew Selby
ReplyDeletehttp://www.selbysonline.blogspot.com
Thank you for doing such a beautiful and selfless thing for our beloved babies, Kirsten!
Baby Pearson - I miscarried in November of 2006 at 13 weeks so we didn't know if our baby was a boy or a girl. I think about that baby a lot and can't wait to meet him or her one day. Thank you for what you are doing.
ReplyDeleteJordan Yvanovich, May 2008, miscarried after 8 weeks.
ReplyDeleteDallas Caldwell
ReplyDeleteImmaculee Michelle
ReplyDeletepronounced Im mack u lay
Thank you so much1
Baby Smelser miscarried @ 9 weeks in Dec 2005
ReplyDeleteAnother Baby Smelser miscarried at 10 weeks (blyted ovum) July 2007
Kirsten - you can say them however you choose... dates do not need to be included.
Our last name is pronounced (Smell Sir)
Thank you for doing this - it is amazing.
Vincent Elias (ee-LI-us)Johnson, stillborn at 24 weeks
ReplyDeleteEmma Grace and five other miscarriages.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for doing this.
http://danna-3pinkcupcakes.blogspot.com/p/miscarriages.html
Emma Eiliyah (/uh-lie-uh/); 12/7/09, 24w1d
ReplyDeleteMuch love to you, Kirsten!
Baby Carr m/c 2008
ReplyDeleteDorothy Ann Carr m/c 2009
Baby Carr m/c 2010
Elizabeth Jane
ReplyDeleteDuane Schultz Jr
ReplyDeleteAndrew "Drew" Walter Deye (DIE)
ReplyDeleteBaby "Albos" (AL-BUS) Deye (DIE)
Thank you for including my loves in your project :)
http://spendtimeinmyshoes.blogspot.com/
Taylor Benjamin Enzor (stillborn 12/13/2006)
ReplyDeleteBaby Enzor (m/c 5/26/07)
Thank you for doing this!
My niece - Alianna Raquel Trujillo (Ahli-ana True-hiyo)
ReplyDeleteAimee Isabel Greene
ReplyDeleteHarlow Elizabeth Schaefer
ReplyDeleteJessica Denise Tumminello
Jordan Riley Tumminello
(tum-ehn-ell-oh)
James Matthew Mannix
ReplyDelete10/2/01-10/13/01
www.jamessproject.com/blog
wyatt daniel keith
ReplyDeleteethan daniel keith
mary lynn keith
our brown stars baby keith 1 & 2
wyattsways.blogspot.com
Luke Aaron Sexton
ReplyDeleteMy two munchkins:
ReplyDeleteJulia Rose Davies
Evan Riley Davies
and my friends babies:
Daniel TR Vidins
Zachary Logan Hagin
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ReplyDeleteMy older sister Susan Heartly
ReplyDelete(she would be 40 now) carried full term, but gone at 5 months gestation. My mother says thank you.... and so do I
Elianna Sofia Essery
ReplyDeleteE-lee-aHna sofia essery (s sound, not z). Thank you so much!
My Two Angels
ReplyDeleteJeremy Ryan Wilson 2-27-2011
ReplyDeletejocelyn sara swords
ReplyDeletemiscarried at 6 weeks gestation
march 2004
xavier ian swords
(pronounced with a z not x)
stillborn at 18 weeks gestation
june 4, 2009
http://swords9603.blogspot.com/
Madelyn Rose Sage-Lauck (the last name is pronounced "Sage" like the plant, and "Lowck")
ReplyDeleteNicholas O. <3
ReplyDeleteIt would mean a lot to me if you would say the name of my brother, Randy Jay Dickhausen. He was born on Oct. 15, 1965, so the day of your project would have been his 45th birthday. He died Nov. 27, 1965 of a congenital heart defect. Thank you for doing this. I'm looking forward to showing the video to my mother.
ReplyDeleteSamuel Stringfellow
ReplyDeleteJoy Stringfellow
Both miscarried at 8 weeks.
Stringfellow, just as it looks, string + fellow
Our three little ones we miscarried:
ReplyDeleteLoved one 2004
Loved two 2010
Loved three 2011
Tripp Shelton Taylor
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I lost a baby at 12 weeks in 2002, which I feel in my spirit is a girl. We named her:
ReplyDeleteLanay
http://www.princesswarriorlessons.com/p/miscarriage.html
PS - pronounced (la-nay) as it looks xo
ReplyDeleteRory Mae
ReplyDeleteBaby Lawlor "law-loar"(miscarriage at 12 weeks)
ReplyDeleteMy niece or nephew...
ReplyDeleteBaby Thomison (Thomas-son)
Miscarriage at 9 wks.
Baby Matthew John lost at 9wks
ReplyDeleteBaby Lansford lost 7wks
baby Lansford lost 4wks
Abree Faith returned home at 10 days old.
ReplyDeleteJaxton Oliver Mark Husmann (pronounced hoosmen)
ReplyDeleteLived 14 days and 30 minutes with Trisomy 18
from his family who misses him so much,
Lisa Josh & jake Husmann
www.lisahusmann.wordpress.com
Leah Faith Kaler - for one of my good friend Jen Kaler
Charlotte Jean Loeser (pronounced (low-zer) for my good friend Aimee Loeser
Sawyer Patick - for my mentor and friend Marsha Patick
Thank you and many blessings being sent your way!!!
Robert Allen Bidwell
ReplyDeleteStillborn at 20 weeks 07/16/2006
http://thebidwellcrew.blogspot.com/
Little One <3
ReplyDeleteLost at 11 1/2 weeks pregnant
For my baby sister, Monica Sue Faifer, (pronounced like the common Pfeiffer) 07/14/80 - 07/16/80. Thank you for this!
ReplyDeleteChristina Dahlia Lopez-Shafer
ReplyDeleteColin Hunter Brown
ReplyDeleteBrylea Marie Branham (silent "H")
ReplyDeleteborn asleep at 36 weeks
Baby Zoretic (pronounced just how it looks) m/c 2004
Kirsten, may I request three of "my" NICU babies?
ReplyDeleteThe first is Naomi... Samuel, and Eva Grace.
Thank you...
Annie Grace Sabin
ReplyDeleteBorn with Tetralogy of Fallot with Absent Pulmonary Valve.
3/30/2010- 8/1/2010.
Missing her every day.
anniesinmyheart.blogspot.com
Camille Katoch (Kay-Tosh)
ReplyDeletedied and born June 30, 2011
38 weeks pregnant.
I miss her with every breath.
http://38weeksandcountingtears.blogspot.com/
Caleb Thomas Doblar. Lived 3 precious days. September 27th-30th 2010. He had HLHS and other severe heart defects. Nlot a day goes by where I don't think of him, and remember his sweet smell.
ReplyDeletehttp://calebsheartstory.blogspot.com/
Matthew David Long
ReplyDeleteBorn with Down Syndrome
and severe heart defects
12/26/04-2/14/05
Thank you!
Solomon Jedidiah Biggs
ReplyDeleteMiscarried, August 1989, at about 10 weeks.
My little sister, Beth McCormick (lost in 1992), and two other siblings, Baby Harrison and Baby Harrison, lost in the early 80s.
ReplyDeleteAyden Simon Peterson born still born at 24 weeks.
ReplyDeletewww.petersontwinmiracls.blogspot.com
Troy Michael Potts passed at 5 days from SIDS. Thank-you!
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