No one is asking us to forget. No one is asking us to pretend as though it never happened, as though their absence doesn't hurt like hell.
In honor of them, and of all those we miss ...
Requiem aeternum dona eis, Domine,
et Lux perpetua luceat eis,
cum Sanctus tuis in aeternum, quia pius es.
(Grant them eternal rest, Lord,
and let perpetual light shine on them,
as with Your saints in eternity, because You are merciful)